Trusting can be hard and we all have our reasons why. Many of us will say “yes, I trust you ” but in your mind you are saying “no way do I trust you” you have your hands crossed just like the man in the photo when it comes to trusting people.
Surely you don’t want to tell the person that you don’t trust them for you don’t want to appear to be a not so good person or friend, let alone hurt someone’s feelings so you lie by crossing your fingers and they can’t see that your mind is crossed.
Can you get pass the reasoning why you can’t trust? I do believe that one of the reasons why trusting is a problem for us, it’s not just the disappointments and hurts we receive but it goes much deeper then that.
It’s because we haven’t learned to love ourselves. I’m not talking about that superficial love I’m talking about that love that God gives us to love others.
Do you trust yourself? Now before you say “yes” be honest with yourself.